what is tantra massage?
Not all tantra massages are created equal. Some people advertise "tantra massage" but are really just providing "rub & tugs" or sensual massage with a happy ending. These practitioners often don't have much training and usually provide a superficial experience.
I do believe there is a time and a place for everything. My tantra massage is different. SkyDancer Tantra Massage is a truly unique experience. Over the past 15 years, I have developed a wonderful, whole body treatment that blends various relaxing, therapeutic and sensual techniques. My methods include: reiki, swedish, deep tissue, lomi lomi, pressure point, conscious breathing and intimate touch. The overall experience is BLISSFULLY relaxing and replenishing... offering an integration of mind, body, spirit. So... what is Tantra? “Tan-tra” comes from two Sanskrit words: Tan-oti and Tra-yati. Tanoti means: expansion [of consciousness] Trayati means: liberation [from the world of illusion] So Tantra literally means: Liberation through expansion. With Tantra Massage, we can expand our consciousness by freeing up our energy. The energy we are freeing is sexual (creative, primal), emotional (heart and gut) and ultimately our kundalini life force energy (spirit): the energy of spiritual awakening and transformation. Tantra also means to weave... and to merge. Masculine and feminine. Dark and light. Heaven and earth. To recognize the unity beyond all separation. This is the ideal of tantra. Some reasons why clients come for Tantra Massage:
*PLEASE NOTE: Unlike traditional massage therapy, Tantra Massage invites all parts of you to be included in the treatment. Your heart, mind, body and soul are welcome. Your emotions are welcome. Your sexual energy is welcome. YOU are welcome, just as you are. Each session includes a brief consultation where we will discuss your intention and any relevant history, concerns, health issues and boundaries. Sometimes doing deep work, brings up deep feelings... or it activates certain energies in the body. Things can get a little messy and that's ok. This is a safe space to feel and release. If you need ongoing support, we can make that happen. in depth consultation
Every session includes a brief 10-15 minute consultation to cover the basics. But you are welcome to use as much time as you need to process your thoughts and feelings in a relaxed, non-judgmental environment. This may include issues related to your family, religion, sexual history or anything that you want to talk about.
In our society, it's considered impolite to discuss subjects like sex, so it can be very liberating to have a safe space where you may feel heard, acknowledged and accepted. sacred intimacy practices |
The sacred intimacy practices that I offer during my sessions are based on straight forward principles originating a long time ago in a land far, far away. ;) Approaching intimacy as a meditation, we become more aware of ourselves, our thoughts, feelings and impulses... as well as the beauty and mystery of our partners. We become alert to the present moment and all that it offers us.
Through eye gazing, breathing, mudras (hand positions) and conscious touch, we give ourselves an opportunity to be seen, acknowledged and witnessed in our openness and vulnerability. These meditations provide an opportunity to heal emotional wounds and develop the skills of intimacy in a safe, loving way. plant medicine journeys
If you're ready for a more profound experience of bliss, then perhaps a plant medicine journey is calling you. These journeys are an opportunity to go deeper into your own healing and awakening process. You may discover and explore new aspects of your sexuality, as well as transform old beliefs and heal wounds of the heart.
I work primarily with two different medicines and they are to be used with reverence and respect, knowing that with the right intention, mindset and environment, they will bestow the most amazing gifts. Most journeys are between 4-6 hours and can be arranged on any day of the week (except Sunday). Make sure you have the following day off. You will need it. :) Please inquire for more information. |
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