what is tantra massage?
Not all tantra massages are created equal.
Some people advertise "tantra massage" but are really just providing "rub & tugs" or sensual touch with a happy ending. These practitioners often don't have much training and the experience is usually quite superficial and unsatisfying.
I do believe there is a time and a place for everything.
My tantra massage is different.
SkyDancer Tantra Massage is a truly unique experience. Over the past 15 years, I have developed a wonderful, whole body treatment that blends various relaxing, therapeutic and sensual techniques. My methods include: reiki, swedish, deep tissue, lomi lomi, pressure point, conscious breathing and intimate touch. The overall experience is BLISSFULLY relaxing and replenishing... offering an integration of mind, body, spirit.
So... what is Tantra?
“Tan-tra” comes from two Sanskrit words: Tan-oti and Tra-yati.
Tanoti means: expansion
Trayati means: liberation
So Tantra literally means: liberation through expansion.
With Tantra Massage, we are expanding our energy and liberating our consciousness/spirit. The energy we expand is sexual, emotional and spiritual (kundalini life force). As this energy expands through our body, we begin to feel liberated from negative thoughts, beliefs and programming. And we reconnect with the truth of our nature, which is radiantly alive, blissful and free!
Tantra also means to weave and to merge. Masculine and feminine. Dark and light. Heaven and earth. To dance with polarity in the sensual world. And to recognize the unity beyond all separation.
These are the ideals of tantra.
Some reasons why clients come for Tantra Massage:
*PLEASE NOTE: Unlike traditional massage therapy, Tantra Massage invites all parts of you to be included in the treatment. Your heart, mind, body and soul are welcome. Your emotions are welcome. Your sexual energy is welcome. YOU are welcome, just as you are. Each session includes a brief consultation where we'll discuss your intention and any relevant sexual history, health issues and boundaries.
Sometimes this work can trigger deep feelings, body memories or activate certain chakras (energy centres). Things can get a little messy. And that's ok! The sacred container I create for these sessions is a safe space to feel, release and integrate. Remember to give yourself enough downtime after each session to care for your needs. If you want ongoing support, we can make that happen.
in depth consultation
Every session includes a brief 10-15 minute consultation. But you are welcome to use as much time as you want to process your thoughts and feelings in a relaxed, non-judgmental environment. This may include issues related to your family, religion, sexual history or anything that you'd like to talk about.
In our society, it's considered impolite to discuss subjects like sex, so it can be liberating to have a safe space where you can feel heard, acknowledged and accepted.
sacred intimacy practices
The sacred intimacy practices that I offer during my sessions are based on straight forward principles originating a long time ago in a land far, far away. ;) Approaching intimacy as a meditation, we become aware of our thoughts, feelings, boundaries and desires... allowing us to navigate authentic connection based on the truth of the moment.
Through eye gazing, breathing, mudras (hand positions) and conscious touch, we give ourselves an opportunity to be seen, acknowledged and witnessed in our openness and vulnerability. These meditations provide an opportunity to develop the skills of intimacy in a safe, controlled way.
cannabis medicine journeys
If you're ready for a more profound experience of bliss, then perhaps a cannabis medicine journey is calling you.
For me, Tantra and cannabis are a match made in heaven. They seem to work beautifully together, enhancing feelings of pleasure, ecstasy and bliss.
These journeys are an opportunity to use legal cannabis as a tool to help open new energy pathways in the body and expand your erotic horizons. Unlike smoking, which can sometimes elicit a feeling of paranoia or anxiety, the cannabis I use is in edible form and extremely high quality, safe and reliable... without any of the negative side effects.
The specific formula is a 1:1 ratio of CBD/Sativa in jelly form (Sativa 1:1 Jelly Bomb). You can read about the company and their products here: https://twistedextracts.ca/products/
Most journeys are between 3-5 hours and can be arranged on any day of the week except Sunday.
Please inquire for more information. 💚
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